What does it mean to be men in 21st Century?

  In 21st Century society wants real men to be strong and independent but on the other hand they've created a model of "stay-at-home-dad". People wants males to have a strong characters so they can be the leaders of relationships. However when females started to concentrate on their careers, more and more men get their roles. Nowadays many of them are staying at home while taking care of their children. Society created two types of 21st Century men- the leaders and the ones that are taking stereotypical feminine role in life.